Strength of a Family

So this post is due to a few things I have heard or seen or felt this week. Because of the gospel principles that guide most of our lives, we understand the importance of family. One lady made a great point in gospel doctrine last week. She said that all God does all day long every day is serve his kids, that's it, and that's all He WANTS to do. That's the way to happiness. This is mostly for moms, but think about what we do all day. We make three meals which includes meal planning and grocery shopping, clean non-stop so the family has a comfortable environment, do the laundry so the family has clean dry clothes, think of crafts and games to keep them happy and learning, run them to school and activities so they have joy and fulfillment. I could go on and on. That's a lot of serving that can only be learned through motherhood. I will be the first to admit that sometimes I wish I was off somewhere else on my own, but really...this is the most happy I have ever been in my life. Sure, I had a ton of fun in high school and college, but serving little souls all day long, and a fabulous husband of course :), just brings so much peace. Does that make sense? I had a great talk one day with my sister-in-law, Amy Jo Hunsaker. I was feeling frustrated about my feet because I feel like my injuries have stopped me from doing many things I love, but she started talking about how she has felt frustrated about some things in her life and she decided to just get rid of all the outside influences that cause her anger and just focus on her kids and she said she has felt so much peace. She even cleaned out her room of all distraction so she has to be downstairs more where the family life is taking place. What a great idea! So I have been trying that. Trying not to feel bad for myself and to just focus on the gospel and the family. And today this scripture was discussed in Sunday School..."For bodily exercise profiteth for a little while, but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come." (1 Tim 4:8) Now I am in no way saying you shouldn't exercise because you SHOULD, it's important to, but I was so focused on doing it, that I lost sight of many other things and that, my friends, is WRONG. In fact I think I was falling to one of Satan's greatest tools on Latter Day Saint Women, distracting us with our hobbies. I think he knows what we like, and tries to get us to go overboard with it by comparing ourselves to others and putting so much time into it that we soon neglect our family. I think he's doing a pretty good job at that actually. So I'm trying to learn to fight him on that and only do what's appropriate as far as "me time" goes because "me time" can very soon turn into neglect of the kids and spouse. I have seen it time and time again. So here are a few pictures of the little kiddos that I get to spend time serving all day and I hope all you moms out there enjoy your time serving your adorable little ones too!

Down Here On The Floor

Our little Roman is as cute as a button, but refuses to crawl. He is super strong (just ask my hair which he pulls all the time) and he knows how to scooch around on his bottom, but he won't crawl. Some moms tell me not to worry, but he is pretty much 11 months old now so...I'm worried. Which has led me to spending an incredible amount of time down on the floor playing with and encouraging him. Although we're not making too much progress in the crawling area, I have realized that most of the good times I have spent with my kids involve them doing things down on the floor. I'll show you what I mean.


We opend our Christmas presents down here on the floor.





I'll push him around down here on the floor.


We share snacks with our friends down here on the floor.


We mess up mom's things down here on the floor.


I'm usually lying down here on the floor.


I've got a buddy down here on the floor.


Perhaps conceived down here on the floor?


Taken control of the game room down here on the floor.


So although I want him to move (which I know I will regret saying as soon as he does it) it's been pretty fun hanging out with these two cuties down on the floor.

A Little Behind?

I've been a little sporadic at this blog thing lately, but I'll give it another go. Here are a few pictures of our ward 3k. London ran over half of it and took first in her age group. We were so proud of her (she may have been the only three year old in the race). They had cute little participation medals for everyone made out of Oreos.




We went to Utah for Halloween. So here is London as a princess along with Johnie as a vampire and Davy as a Robot.





Here's our cute little pumpkin.

Can I Have Just One Smile?

London's a bit of a goof when it comes to taking photos. I'll let the pictures do the talking!




Now that's better.



And here's my cute 6 monther.

3 years and 4 months

London turned three this summer and had a fun little princess party with some friends. She's loves being a big sister...well most of the time she does, but we love her tons and are always so amazed at her quick wit! And Roman turned four months yesterday. The little chuncker weighs in at 15 pounds 5 ounces and it's all in the thighs and cheeks. So cute!

Happy Father's Day

We didn't do too much for Father's Day, but Tim had a great day all the same since he's got two cute kiddos like these!

a few pictures